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Change: Alter, Transform and Switch; To Become ...

: to make different in some particular : ALTER

: to make radically different : TRANSFORM

: to make a shift from one to another : SWITCH

: to become different

Ahh yes: “Alter, transform and switch, to become different’’.....these words resonate a lot in FIG’s evolution, we’re excited about a little bit of change (and a little apprehensive if we’re being honest!).

Change: Alter, Transform and Switch; To Become Different
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Technology Addiction: Yes, It's a Thing...

In her Wall Street Journal article: Digital Addictions Are Drowning Us in Dopamine, Dr, Lembke, a Stamford University professor and psychiatrist, talks about the scientific biological effects of addictions to our devices. It’s real folks. This is not FIG banging the drum of putting down our phones or any other technological apparatus and talking or connecting with our fellow human beings. No. This is concrete, physiological, measurable, science based fact that continuously interacting with our high-tech electronic leashes, gaming apparatuses and social media actually, physically, alters our brains to crave more of it, thereby de-incentivising us to engage with others on a human level.

Gasp, shock and awe!

Technology Addiction: Yes, It's a Thing...
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Mistakes: Perfectly Human

Mistakes. We all make them, we’re human beings and by definition 99.9% imperfect (with apologies to those of you who think otherwise), which results in, guess what? Mistakes (we make them hourly at FIG)! That gaffes, miscalculations and oversights are a part of our collective experience on this earth. Why (on earth!) is it so hard to admit to making mistakes, take responsibility for these human aberrations and move on after making a miscalculation or error? Hmmmm?

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Habits: The Good, The Bad, and the Intangible

We all have habits - some serve us well and some get in our way…...Google states: “A habit is a settled or regular tendency or practice, especially one that is hard to give up.” Establishing a habit usually takes about two weeks to become routine and is subsequently supported and reinforced by practicing it daily.

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Life Happens

Ever had a “Monday” on any day of the week? Ever had your day perfectly planned, scheduled and organized only to have all your intended “to-do’s”: meetings, calls, oh yeah, actual “work,” utterly blown up by an unexpected interruption, complication, interference? Ever had someone insert themselves into your day with their drama, troubles or lack of planning (real or self-inflicted), requiring you to shelve your carefully laid out day(s) and requiring you to stop whatever you’re doing for their fire drill?

Yeah, us too.

Life Happens

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A Manicure Revelation

A Manicure Revelation

Last weekend, I treated myself to a manicure (which was lovely!) and an event happened that I haven’t been able to shake. Here’s what transpired: we were about halfway through this luxury and a guy walked into the salon with his son (unusual, but there it is). The owner, who was tending to my post-pandemic hands and cuticles (it wasn’t pretty!), asked - as they do when anyone comes in- “Hello! How can we help you?” The guy said, “I’ll need 7 mani/pedis for a party. Can you do it in an hour?” The owner looked around her Saturday busy salon - all 5 of the nail technicians were busy with clients and would be for the next 2 hours. So she said to the guy (paraphrasing a bit) “Can you come back in 2 hours? We’ll have to stagger your party, but we can fit them all in then?” The guy, clearly annoyed, said to his son, “Let’s go!” The boy said “What’s wrong? Why aren’t you taking the appointments?” The (Dad?) said it was much too long to wait, they’d find somewhere else, and probably wouldn’t be back!. For a party of 7, requested an hour in advance!

SO. A lot to unpack here…..